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Show, Don’t Tell: What It Means and How to Do It

I can’t stand exposition dumps in stories—they’re a lazy way to shove background info at readers and can kill a narrative’s momentum. In my novel Birthright, I focus on showing Cordelia’s journey gradually through her thoughts and interactions, letting her backstory unfold naturally instead of dumping it all at once.

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How to Create a Believable World in Your Fiction

When I wrote Birthright: Acquisition, I learned that crafting a believable world—even one set in a dystopian future ravaged by nuclear war—starts with establishing clear, consistent rules and grounding them in research. By diving into the effects of nuclear fallout and drawing inspiration from other authors in my genre, I created a vivid, relatable setting where Cordelia’s story unfolds, complete with a dictatorship and a slave labor society. Through practice, reading widely, and weaving believable reasons for exceptions—like Cordelia’s ability to read despite her background—I’ve found that any world, no matter how fantastical, can feel real to readers.

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Unseen Scars: My Journey Through Gaslighting and Parental Abuse

Growing up, I faced relentless manipulation and abuse from my parents, particularly my father, who gaslit me into questioning my reality. Despite my efforts to expose his behavior, their campaign to label me as "crazy" with fabricated diagnoses like ADHD and borderline personality disorder left me unheard and isolated. Now, as an adult, I’m reclaiming my truth, sharing how their actions led to lasting mental scars and a diagnosis of Reactive Attachment Disorder that went untreated. Writing this is my step toward healing and helping others know they’re not alone.

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Plotting vs Pantsing: How Do You Know What’s Right For You?

As a writer, I’ve learned that choosing between plotting and pantsing is about finding what sparks my creativity best—I started as a plotter but found my groove as a pantser, letting my characters guide the story as I write. Whether you love meticulously planning every detail or diving into the chaos of a blank page, there’s no right or wrong way to write; it’s all about experimenting to discover what works for you. Through practice and persistence, I’ve realized that the key is to keep writing, embrace mistakes, and let my unique voice shine, no matter the method.

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Top 5 Tips For Writing Engaging Dialogue

Bad dialogue can slaughter your story faster than a plot twist gone wrong—I’ve learned that the hard way. It’s the heartbeat of your characters, and if it doesn’t ring true, your readers will tune out. Here are my five battle-tested tips to craft dialogue that grabs attention, from eavesdropping on real voices to ditching the ‘he said, she said’ clutter—because nothing kills immersion like a clunky chat.

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Ink and Tears: The Raw Reality of a Struggling Indie Author

In this blog post, I share my lifelong dream of becoming a famous author, a passion I’ve held since I was five. I trace my journey from childhood writing to facing the brutal realities of today’s publishing world. Once, traditional publishing offered a challenging but possible path; now, self-publishing is flooded with mediocre books, and readers’ attention spans have dwindled. I confront the stigma of being an indie author, the compromises of traditional routes, and how technology has shattered my hopes, leaving me—a middle-aged writer—wondering where I fit in a market that no longer seems to value my craft.

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How To Overcome Writer’s Block

Writer’s block has haunted me more times than I’d like to admit—a struggle I see echoed across Twitter by authors everywhere. From losing my spark after David Bowie’s death to finding it again through a chance meeting with an actor, I’ve learned there’s no quick fix. For me, it’s all about waiting for the muse to return, whether sparked by a photograph or time itself. My journey from stalled creativity to finishing novels like Birthright: Acquisition (on sale now) proves it: time heals writer’s block, even if forcing it only leads to trash I can’t stand.

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Screaming into the Digital Abyss: The Brutal Truth About Writing in the Age of AI and Apathy

In a raw and candid blog post, I lay bare the brutal truth about the publishing industry, where who you know and how you sell yourself often outweigh the quality of your craft. After years of fruitless networking, blogging, and social media efforts, I’m left despairing at my lack of readership and the rising flood of AI-generated books in a world where attention spans are shrinking fast.

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